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Pattaya People – The Good, Bad & The Ugly

I wanted to write this post today as sometimes I get annoyed with certain people I meet in Pattaya, there are really great people that I have met on Pattaya Addicts but then there are others which you think..oh no its one of these again.

I try not to judge people by their appearance and speak with everyone but I know people probably judge me as a pretty boy, but you want to bare in mind that everyone who comes to Pattaya(including myself) does so because they don’t fit in back in the West.

There are 4 main personalities which I see in Pattaya but they are only generalized and not meant to stereotype any one person. They are as follows:

‘The Mean Thuggish Type’


This is my least favorite out of all because they usually want to be the alpha-male but really they are just skeptical about all Pattaya girls because they are bitter at being less attractive either physically or personality wise. Don’t get me wrong I know most Pattaya girls are after your money but these guys think that unless you are getting drunk everyday and having a new girl everyday then there must be something wrong with you. This is not true since you can meet Thai girls who have real careers.

The General Bar Go-er’


I get it, Pattaya is a great place to have fun, drink and meet many beautiful girls… I have been there trust me, I have also learned from mistakes with certain girls and then moved on. I know guys who work in bars but also have a regular partner at times and I feel a lot of them want to settle down at some point. This is why I have many good friends in Pattaya like this.

The Settled Type (With Money ;))


Photo by W00kie

From time to time you will meet younger guys who have the means to stay in Thailand regularly and they have found a decent partner, like I said, the myth that all that is on offer is bar girls without any value is just that – a MYTH. Since I have been with my Thai girlfriend over a year we also visited her friends villa which was paid for by a Swiss guy who is married to her. Thai women are still one of the last family orientated women let around the globe.

‘The Retired Guy’


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Lastly is the retired guy and these generally come in 2 kinds, the disorientated type who cannot escape the bars grasp but cannot settle down with younger girls. However you do see retired guys who have found a Thai women around their own age and have settled down and maybe even has kids, I guess if you are going to spend your life savings in Thailand you might as well have something to show for it!

By James Thomas



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